Choosing Toys for Hospitalized Patients: FAQs

Why do children need toys in the hospital?

Hospitalization can be very stressful on children and their parents. Familiar toys and projects help comfort children by providing joy and distraction. Toys that reduce stress and engage attention in colorful, musical and soothing ways help children feel better and heal faster.

Can I bring my gently used toys?

Because some hospitalized children may have allergies or other sensitivities to toys that have already been played with, we cannot accept gently used toys. New toys (unwrapped for the first time in the hospital playroom or at a child’s bedside) ensure that all children will be safe and comforted.

Are there any other guidelines I should follow?

Toys made of strong, safe plastic are the safest and easiest to keep clean. Children who are stressed need calming and soothing toys. Please do not bring toys with violent themes or that shoot or launch missiles, cars or planes. 

What about books?

Children love books and so do we. We suggest books with short stories, especially picture books. Just like toys, all books must be brand new. For infants and toddlers, board books (books with cardboard covers and pages) are always appreciated.

Should I wrap my gifts?

We prefer that you do not wrap gifts. That way we can see gifts and match the best gift to each child. If you wish, you can include gift bags in your donation. If you feel you must wrap your gifts, please use clear cellophane as used in gift baskets.

Where, how and when do I deliver my donation?

The Child Life staff is prepared to accept your donation of one or more gifts at the information desk in our Stony Brook Children's Hospital lobby. You will be asked to complete a Donor Log Form when you arrive. For toy drives or very large donations, please schedule a delivery with the Child Life staff in advance. To make an appointment, call (631) 216 3636. A Stony Brook Child Life Specialist or Volunteer will greet you in the Children's Hospital lobby to accept your donation.

May I hand my donation directly to the patients?

To preserve patient confidentiality and reduce the potential for infection exposure, donors are not allowed to visit pediatric units to deliver gifts directly to patients.

Can I make a monetary donation to the hospital?

Absolutely. If you would like to donate money, please contact Child Life Program at (631) 216-3636 for information on how and where to send your donation.

What toys do you need most?

The Stony Brook Children’s Amazon Wish List provides examples of the toys that work best on a hospital unit across all age groups. Please purchase from this list or use as a guide when you plan your donation. Thanks so much for helping out hospitalized children!